I agree with your assessment of easy divorce ad I am also a female who has gone through a divorce in the past. Not only should women ( and men) not marry in haste but they should abstain from sexual intimacy until marriage. I would venture to say that early intimacy is often mistaken for “love” when it is, in reality, lust. That wears off and you are stuck with a person who shares very little of your vision for life.
I am actually sympathetic to cultures where the parents arrange marriages
As a parent, I feel confident I could pick a far better partner for my children than most of them could.