Countries are not houses. If country A invades country B, and country B is unable to drive out the invaders and exhaust their means to do so, whether it be money, weapons, warm bodies, etc, it then belongs to the invaders and it becomes their country. It’s been that way since the dawn of man, and will be such until the end.
Right and wrong isn’t the issue and is a childish way to look at this.
If someone invaded us tomorrow and wiped out our military and all fighting adults, and take over, this country will become whatever the victors desire, and the current nation will cease to exist.
That’s just how the world works. Stop getting stuck on right and wrong. The world doesn’t care.
The world doesn’t care about abortion, your rights to bear arms, free speech or your economic situation either. Best to just let it take its course.
Of course, concepts like Natural Rights, right and wrong, do not exist in nature. Their only value is as a set of rules, to have a civilized society.
Theft, murder and rape, are only wrong by our made-up rules. So yeah, that is how the world works. If some choose to ignore these rules, I see your point, so what?