Get it out of your head, that you can be nice to that bunch of haters.
God said “Vengeance is Mine”. I guess He thinks we don’t handle it well.
I do think we can try to work it out with Christians.. If they behave like they are.. But the others.. They don’t want to get along.. You being nice just eggs them on.
For the haters (aka bullies) being nice eggs them on because they perceive it as weakness. They done understand the strength it takes to not retaliate.
Besides, you can respond appropriately which doesn’t always seem nice but is really tough love.
The bullies, however, know how to play the system and use the accusation of not being nice, simply to manipulate others into compliance and subjection to them.
THEY certainly are not being nice all the while accusing you of it. Just like democrats.