Fair point.
But then, most of them are married couples raising children in two-parent homes, and their kids are great kids. It's in a fairly low income area, and we do have some who come to the church at first blaming the whitey for everything under the sun, but they're the minority and they're not our leaders or teachers. The low income folks come because they want something different, and the blacks with sound minds tell them that racial hatred and bitterness to all things white or American is a lie from Satan keeping them in spiritual bondage and not addressing root problems.
Then the next step is dissing the people telling the lies to keep blacks in spiritual bondage -- which are the Dims. I don't have to say it, in fact the few times I've said were meaningless. It's when the Christian-first, family minded blacks say to diss the Dims is when it's powerful.