“Begs belief don’t it?”
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I am thinking I would have led of with, “My disowned mother/demented mother/no longer trusted mother...”
You see where I am going.
It should actually scare the shite out of you because she’s obviously geared towards quite possibly overlooking any activity with her own offspring’s offspring.
Folks who can make excuses/allowances for evil in thier world for the sake of convience can easily barter the safety of their own bloodline....
It’s been done all throughout history.
Yep. That woman would no longer be in the family tree as far as I am concerned.
Heart-attack-drop-dead serious.
I grieve for your hurt. I really do...
My mom is something else. My sister and brother and I never had any positive relationship with her. My kids/my sister’s are grown. My brother lives 800 miles from her, so our immediate family is safe in that respect.
Mom is a narcissist. Always has been. She is not interested in any truth that doesn’t adhere to her idea of her “perfect” life (related to being a narcissist I understand). My sister and I have often discussed the miracle of us becoming adults without SERIOUS mental issues, but that’s because we had a great father. He couldn’t understand mom either, but was a faithful husband/dad in spite of her meanness. They married at a time when relationships through letter-writing and only seeing one another on weekends was still common. Therefore he didn’t really get to know her until it was “too late”.
And you’re right about her overlooking things. She has a cousin who’s in his early 80’s now that was in prison for decades over a murder he committed during a robbery. TO THIS DAY she refuses to believe he was at fault. Why? Because he doted on her when she was young. Blah!!!! No matter the witnesses and testimony of his accomplice (who was only 15). They are all “liars” in her mind.
Makes me wonder the mental capacity of mothers who allow felons into their lives, and their children’s. Something has to be way, way off.