most brothers i know or knew were pretty cool people and down to earth for the most part. you can chill and hang with them (well i couldnt literally hang with my little wanker. lol)
BUT black women — NOPE. They are almost all in the Joy Reid model. The few that aren’t ghetto ho’s are actually cool as hell, but they are very very hard to find.
my old black-buddy from the army had a sister — we hung out one time on leave and she was beyond cool. but again very hard to find.
You nailed it. And many refuse to see it, but there is a strong cadre of young black male podcasters, commentators etc that are conservative.