The statistic you were quoting was deaths per million miles traveled not “accidents”. Currently there are over 6 milllion car accidents a year in the United States. That is compared to approximately 1,200 airline accidents per year and once again 75% of those are in small aircraft. 6,000,000 / 1200 = 5000 times more accidents in cars.
I also am a large frame 6' and my legs and my ass dont fit well in a airline seat.
Yes, I could fly 1st class for 4x the price. thats a given, but I'd still have to fly with animals.