Of the subset of women who crave the excitement, you will find some who like goading and provoking their men.
They get excitement from seeing how close to the edge they can push the guy. It was this observation that got feminists angry at Erin Pizzy.
Goading and provoking her man: like that evening actor Will Smith publicly slapped a comedian at an awards ceremony for cracking a minor joke about Will’s wife.
Many think Jada’s angry look at her husband propelled him into foolish, violent action.