I just wanted to make clear that the couple had been engaged to marry when the sex took place that led to Patti’s birth.
It was not a marriage that wasn’t already in motion.
A divorced man in his 40s getting engaged to a woman in her 30s and then having sex, is surely not anything but typical.
It may be “typical” (or not), but it’s still premature.
And it’s not cause for throwing stones, as previously stated.
I think we’re talking past each other; making points that don’t contradict.