“When she comes to me for her annual Christmas donation, I’m saying, “it’s sitting in the driveway.” ”
Wow!
That’s sounds a bit cold!
You're probably right, but she hasn't gotten the message over the past few years. She has an excellent pension, telling me she should have $1500 after paying her bills.
Over the past year, she has added $1000 a month to my obligations, plus making HER car payment (mine is paid off).
I admit it, I'm a dumb ass, but I am trying to get smarter. It's a losing battle, FRiend. It's the price I'm paying for 35 years of marriage, 3 kids, and 3 grandkids.
Or, as Buddy Guy sings, "it's cheaper to keep her."