We really don't need any of the new iOS features, and I wish we didn't have to upgrade to iOS 17. I suspect we might be allowed a delay for a period of time, but it will be forced on us eventually. And as mentioned before, battery life will likely take a hit once the update is installed.
My wife and I have I13’s and they haven’t been bad phones. We initially started with Iphone 7’s and then an XR. Out of the bunch the 7 and XR were far better phones than the 13.
Right now I am content to run the 13 into the ground. The only reason I left the XR was my provider offered the 13 for free on an ungrade.