You bought the libs re-definition of “fatherless”. Married women do not have fatherless children.
Your cousin’s children had the high probablity of turning out well because widows children turn out the same as other married women.
Your children had less good of a chance. On measures of well being and outcome children of divorce do worse than children raised in families.
Fatherless children do worse on every metric and constitute the bulk of criminals, prisoners and welfare cases. They also are more likely to have other fatherless children.
The broad brush is spot on.
No, my children had “White Privilege” going for them. You know, getting up on time, going to school every day, working hard, learning to be responsible with money, and not having children out of wedlock. You know, White Privilege.
Responsibility is what is lacking in our society. It’s just easier to blame it on “Fatherlessness.”.