Careful, I was lectured the other day about using term stewardess. Apparently it is now flight attendant.
I LOVED being called a stewardess.
When I went private I was able to elevate the service to the highest level.
I was truly in my element.
Since I don’t fly anymore [TSA, et al.] I can stay in the mental state of the old dayz of commercial flight.
When stews were stews and they seemed to like it from my experience.
They certainly volunteered.
YMMV....