I have alphabets in my extended family. My aunt, after four failed marriages, settled down with another woman. We got along fine. I think the reason we did was that they weren’t militant about it. Both were just looking for companionship more than anything and had had trauma in their past. I did love them as family. I have others in my extended family who are out and militant about it. Funny enough, the one I figured would be out by now isn’t, but his sister is. Single mom. Divorced her husband (my cousin) and was a real man-hater. Them I have no love for.
Actually, the ones we’re friends with are rock solid conservatives.