Exceptionalism is not the same as abolition. The two are different.
America has long been recognized as exceptional, even during the period before the 13th amendment.
"America has long been recognized as exceptional"
America has long been without the 1619 Project too. You appear to be wanting to have it both ways. You want to carry the banner of the New York Times high and proud, and you want to carry the banner of years of old-time recognition as well. But you're not realizing the gross contradiction of the two.