Did Jesus hesitate at all in telling sinful people that they sinned, and would go to hell unless they repented?
Would you think that taking a physical WHIP and BEATING people with it, because they were defiling something HOLY, would be regarded by your friends as a "decent and considerate" act?
Often, the best way to be considerate towards people, is to tell them the real long term consequences of their behavior.
Only if it's God-Incarnate dong it, and I only know one of them. That's not you, right?