Women need to first of all demand their womanhood back. Second they must work to rediscover their legitimate position in relation to men.It is not up to men to do that.As long as there are women trying to be men there will be men trying to be women. Both are destructive.
When a man enters a women's swimming contest and laps the competition, he is handed first prize while the women in second and third place submissively stand off to the side and smile. How do women tolerate this?
When a boy shows up to a high school senior prom in a dress, he is invariably voted "homecoming queen" and again, the girls are expected to complacently step aside and yield this much coveted crown to this attention seeking boy.
I was at a wedding recently where a young man inserted himself into the traditional bouquet tossing ceremony, in which the single girls are supposed to try and catch it. Maybe a silly tradition but the guy, who was over six feet tall, had no problem snagging the bouquet out of the air over the hands of the women and then he pantomined catching a TD pass, like the bride was the quarterback and he was a wide receiver. Everybody clapped and cheered for him.
For some reason, the women are completely cowed in these situations. They really do need to stand up for themselves as they have the power to end this nonsense overnight.
For example, let's take the swimming competition. All the women have to do in this situation is just stand there as the pistol shot goes off (to start the race). Let the man jump in the water all by himself as the women turn their backs to him and walk back to the dressing room. By the time the man returns to the finish line, he'll be all by himself, looking completely silly. All it would take is a little collective effort and the whole ruse falls apart.
Feels like somewhere in the 80s women lost the fight to be equal to men in a bizarre need to be men - they dressed like men, spoke like men, started acting like men. The beauty and importance of womanhood was pushed aside in a quest to replace men.