Where you are wrong is that no one would be saying anything if she had stopped with a few gestures, just like Clark stupidly did. But she kept doing it over and over and over, and that’s just immaturity.
As far as the invite is concerned, that’s up to the school and coach to respond to, not the player. She DOES NOT speak for the entire program. If you hired her for a position and she mouthed off like that, putting your company in a bad position in the public sphere, you’d be pretty pissed off about it.
But we are talking about sports not corporate America where trash talking is part of the game, Larry Bird was one of the biggest trash talkers of all time there’s nothing wrong with it when one person is condemned for it and one is not