Don't blame it all on the women.
Sorry. I’m not. Just was talking about their side of it.
I know a lot of wimpy guys are afraid “commitment” and being in an adult relationship that doesn’t entail only their selfish concerns. As well as being liars and small time con artists.
The late SF writer A.E. van Vogt said “Unlike women, men are simple creatures. They live by stimulus and response and want to satisfy desires and gain and hold territory.”