I learned that lesson 18 years ago with unc medical. the crap treatment my son received there made me search and find shriners hospital in south carolina, best move ever. then i left the hospital I worked at in 2018 because unc was taking over.
I am here in New Hanover county - I am sure you are aware of the goat rodeo THAT medical situation has become.
My father was going to move here but opted out since that broke wide open - we all go to Duke now. Even in an emergency, we would take a chance and make the drive rather than try our chances here in Wilmington.