What a tangled web we weave.
Inevitable consequence when SCOTUS confabulated the "right" to "gay marriage," contradicting thousands of years of law and custom.
Don't worry, I'm sure another Federal judge will come along and re-write the rest of the judicial code to accommodate sodomy without giving the legislature or the people the courtesy of a reach around.
If the Lesbian Ex wants to be treated like a divorced man then the judge should make her pay child support and have visitation rights every other weekend.