Yes...diesels are designed for highways,not city/suburban driving. But the funny thing is that 95% of my miles in this vehicle are on Interstates. I’m lucky enough to live across the street from a train station and within walking distance of a supermarket,etc.
Then your own personal situation is one where an EV is not a useful tool or worth the expense.
My situation is different. I normally do 25-50 miles of driving per day, and it is 95% of my diving habits.
I do have other vehicles for longer trips.