Agreed. I need composure before I do. I need to be very calculated with a philosophically sound argument so I don’t come off as being exactly what he accuses conservatives of being. Theology majors are highly skilled in philosophical debate. I went to a Christian Brothers school. To do battle with their point of view you need to have your act together and check your emotions at the door.
The Holy Spirit will tell you what to say. Just take the step. If I were you I would prepare to find a church that stands by the TRUTH.