Some have said the same about Hilary Clinton and Bill. Even though I disagreed with much of what Bill Clinton did as president, points #1 and #2. do apply here as well.
There was an old joke about the Clintons, circa 1993:
Shortly after his election, Bill and Hillary went for a drive around Arkansas. They pulled into a rural gas station. The attendant recognized Hillary; he had dated her at some time in the past.The First Lady remembered him, and politely said "Oh, yes! How nice to see you again!"
Back on the road, Bill joshed Hillary: "Hey, if you had married him, you'd never be First Lady!" Not missing a beat, Hillary responded "If I had married him, HE'D be President"
Lady Macbeths through and through. Mary Lincoln was also a fairly nasty piece of work, who very much kicked her husband onto a a pedestal.
Hilary has always been a hard drivin’ Lady.