that’s why S africans mostly moved to Singapore or elsewhere. My neighbors were SA’s. But they’re stupid leftards. They “stated” they’re not racist but I’ve met their friends and they’re all white. When Mandela croaked, they put a S african flag and invited me for their fake funeral party. It was just nonsense.
You’re describing cognitive dissonance.
From wiki.
When inconsistency (dissonance) is experienced, individuals tend to become psychologically uncomfortable and they are motivated to attempt to reduce this dissonance, as well as actively avoiding situations and information which are likely to increase it.