Your problem is you’re succumbing to a classic false dichotomy.
None of your issues with “The West” justify Russia’s invasion of a sovereign neighbor.
“Invasion,” “invaded,” etc. is relative to user.
They have are terms primarily touted and often used by the Western/US/UK/EU/NATO propaganda-ridden ‘yellow journalism’ media.
Ask the majority of those Russian speaking Ukrainians in the 4 regions/oblasts that just voted (twice - 2015 and now 2022) to join Russia if the Russians “invaded” or Russian’s actions were an “invasion.”