If that be the case, may as well tell women to “lay back and enjoy it” while they are being raped.
In the late 1970s and early 1980s I lived in NJ, but watched NYC news. The crime rates were out of control and women were being raped.
The NYC politicians and others told women to not wear provocative clothing and if they were being raped to not resist and just let the man finish.
That was reality. You saw it in the Memphis jogger murder story this week, blaming the victim.