Just evil.
It’s difficult to get the elderly to realize they are not slaves to their phones. When I was growing up, everything was analog, party lines were normal and answering machines were a luxury for many. If you didn’t answer the phone, you might miss an important call. My parents still thought that way, even after years of answering machines and caller ID. It’s apparently a hard habit to break.
I remember my first answering machine in the late 1980s! I was so proud of it (and my microwave!) I grew up in a lower middle class family and we didn’t really have any luxuries.
Definitely happier in that time - the advanced technology hasn’t really made my life any easier except for saving a little time.
I did not get the “phone gene” ( and I am getting old)..on the other hand, I have finally trained my husband NOT to answer every call on his cell...and he has learned to ask the caller if he can call them back if the caller is questionable. That usually ends the call.