Not the first time the question has been asked, but without a sane answer, the rest makes no sense. Somebody with PR in mind started to apply the word “proud,” and “pride” to homosexual behavior. Such an oxymoron, but they repeated it and repeated it and infiltrateted academia, government, charities, schools with little children and kept repeating the big lie, “pride,” “pride,” “pride,” knowing deep down inside that the appropriate word is “shame,””shame,”” “shame.” Like the provervial lady, “they protest too much,” since they like everyone knows that the word “pride” and “homosexual” together is so very sad in the extreme.
What you are picking up on is “the rule of opposites”.
Whatever the ruling oligarchs and their mass media propaganda outlets are telling you are most likely to be the exact opposite of the truth.
“Ukraine is winning”
“Abortion is women’s health.”
“White men are evil.”
etc etc etc.....