Actually men have a great deal of pressure they put on women when they don’t want that hindrance to their pleasure.
Don’t say they don’t. Yes, they don’t have legal standing, but they DO and HAVE managed to get their way over wavering scared females.
You would like to shift the blame onto men, as that is your natural inclination. Fact is that is not why the vast majority of abortions occur.
Also consider women trying to trap men and their resources by faking pregnancy, or deliberately not taking birth control but telling the men they are. Never hear women saying that is wrong.
Women are always victims, women good, men bad. Extremely predictable and trite.