[zeugma]

Some of my generation (Millennials) and younger have, “consent lists” or contracts that can be shared with one another so each knows what the other is willing to do or what they’ll refuse. The series on Netflix, “Daybreak” has an example of this in one of the episodes.

Sad that this is necessary. kinda turns the whole thing into a transaction.

OTOH, my wife and I once helped a guy who was a really old friend of hers to write up/revise a contract for a BDSM relationship. It was extraordinarily detailed. Kinda pegged my freak meter out a bit. Was interesting though.

[miserare]

Consent lists...how romantic!