You are blessed.
Did you ever have a primary teacher who divided the class into reading cohorts and called the groups *Cardinals*, *Bluebirds, *Robins*. Inside of ten minutes, all the kids knew the *Cardinals* were the smartest kids...etc.
Kids who are wizards are as challenging to raise as kids who are intellectually low. IMO.
Did you ever apply for a job and the interviewer asked you what your grades were? Never happened to me, all they want to see is the diploma, and your experience as it relates to the job opening.