That’s just because the Ukes are better at PR than the Rukes.
Even if there are 20k dead Russians, they won’t care. That’s one of their strengths as a military strategy, the ability to absorb deep losses.
Just keep in mind that the Russians are the invaders. Also, that they signed the same agreement we signed which “assures” sovereignty and borders for Ukraine, in exchange for dismantling nuke weapons. The Ukes honored the agreement, the Rukes violated it twice by invading, and we are busy looking for ways to abrogate our responsiblities.
If we can’t be trusted on such an important issue as nuke nonproliferation, then we are all doomed.
Apparently, no one wants to remember the Budapest Memorandum.