I know a couple young men who would find your 34year old gal a dream come true. Sad that they can’t seem to find each other. Used to be at church, but few attend anymore.
An underlying problem, which no one ever sees fit to mention, is the pervasive effects of freely available and increasingly jaded pornography. People find it at early ages, have grown up with it, which is a relatively new thing, and which has deleterious effects on social life.
Unfortunately, it is unlikely that gal would find those young men of interest, because men have basically dichomitized themselves into nice boys, who can’t keep women interested in them, and bad boys who do not care about the women after having used them.
We need good men who are also capable of being bad boys. That needs to be taught in churches.