Frankly I don’t have an interest in peoples personal interest stories - they all have them.. So it’s enough for me to recognize suffering, death and violence happens in every war and this one is without exception. .....
However certain wars tend to have more fighters i fighting than the parties involved such as foreign fighters internationally Zelensky invited to his conflict. ...and they have no regard for humans nor accountability to anyone...they will always leave a war zone for their home country or the next war they want a paycheck from.
Further if you are in a hot war zone the chances are you’re going to get shot...even if undercover. Thus why close to 5 million have left the country.