> The dead guy’s wife is still without a husband, with children. <
She is also without at least one working finger because Reeves’ bullet almost severed one of her fingers before hitting her husband.
The wife reached out to prevent her husband from assaulting Reeves again. That's how she was shot in the hand.
I too have a Florida carry permit, but I’d it would take 100 times as much for me to use it in a crowded theatre. Probably only if there was an active shooter will I pull mine.