I know of three gay people. Two are males and one female.
The each have good jobs/professions and pass for sane people.
However, they are open about their condition but do not flaunt it. I avoid them because I have a phobia about queers.
The first couple of “gay” people I knew (after the fact) were a renter in our home’s separate garage apartment and a high school band instructor. Both were murdered by “associates.”