I had a co-worker a long time ago who was from Cuba.
he smuggled himself into the States.
I felt bad for him cause his wife and kids were still in Cuba.
Some Co-workers went with him to strip clubs cause I think they felt bad too.
He was allowed to go back to Cuba once a year to visit his family. finally after lots of money and like 10 years he was able to bring them here and get divorced.
Never heard that as an excuse to go to strip clubs before. I feel more sorry for his wife and children.