They are ridiculously easy to spot.
I just light up a cigar. If they are still around after ten seconds (and not screaming hysterically at me) then they are fine.
Makes me wish I smoked cigars.
Just look at how they dress and act.
As you said, generally, they are easy to spot and their numbers are increasing by quantum leaps, sadly.
You don’t even have to to that. Just act like a man. Dress like a man. Talk like a man. Women want a man. Not another woman. Lesbians are who want another woman. Act like a man. Males today wear more jewelry than females. They get their hair styled instead cut. Wear high heel shoes. Have their male equipment cut off. Women want and are after men with male equipment who dress and act as men. Men protect their women. Today, the women protect the males. Just be a man and stand on your own two feet. You will be o.k.