My 15 year old is one of them. I was on the phone with him for 2 hours straight until the all clear.
Scariest thing that a parent can hear is their child saying, “Mom, I don’t want to die this way,” and there is NOTHING you can do except talk to them.
Almost broke me.
Down the memory hole.
God bless you and your family. What a helpless feeling to wait for news the one you love is safe. So glad for you.