You paint with too broad a brush.
Extremism in the defense of kids is no vice. I speak as an attorney who has prosecuted and defended thousands of cases. I see cases in court all of the time. The PC couple that allows the teenage boy next door to baby sit only to find out he’s molesting their son. The Boy Scout volunteer who has no kids who molests Boy Scouts. At my elementary school decades ago, we had TWO men in the entire facility, the principal (at a time when few women were principals) and the PE teacher. 99% women, and that’s the way it should be, at least until middle and high school. I know there are exceptions, but if I saw a guy VOLUNTEERING in an elementary school, my alarm bells would be ringing loudly.