There are lots of men like that that treat women very respectfully but they don’t have the whole package of godlike beauty, lots of money(even though they may be hard working and do keep their bills paid), the right political ideas, and have that prescient sensitivity that can adjust bad behaviors, attitudes, or to have the woman’s cup of tea just right without even the woman having to say anything.(communication is such a burden for some women; why can’t their men be sensitive enough just to read their minds?).
Some women complain about the inherent dishonesty or insincerity of motives of most men until they actually encounter a forthrightly honest man whose strength of character forces such women to draw back or even dislike such them. Such women, in spending time with a strong honest and good guy, would be forced to face their own flaws but don’t want to, being actually comfortable in their own flawed ways, even if the men involved simply love them for what they are.
Some women want a "nice guy" they can call upon to fix their garbage disposal, while they are out screwing their unemployed biker bad boy.