It is a very destructive path, but completely understandable; many feel they have no alternative. One of my young adult sons described how none of his peers volunteers for anything or donates to anything; they see no point when they’re being told they won’t enjoy their parents’ standard of living. They work, and they want to get paid for it and enjoy the fruits of their labor. If the current gender warfare takes families off the table, so be it.
I completely understand how ugly the war on men is, but no ideology that fails to enfranchise fatherhood is ever going to make a constructive difference.