This happened with Irons Church up in the Pacific Northwest. A cross-dressing man got involved and was included "as a woman" for quite a while. But when a woman's weekend retreat was announced and the man wanted to join them "as a woman," he was apologetically declined for the obvious reason that the retreat would involve intimate spaces for overnight accommodations with other actual women. Of course, the cross-dresser immediately blurted out his ordeal to several of many homosexual propaganda outlets, who made the story go viral nationwide overnight, but what did the church expect to happen?
Now, the Gaystapo has a church doxing site, ChurchClarity, which targets churches which won't accept them fully as "hateful bigots."
I left the Methodist Church where we are members because I didn’t feel comfortable disagreeing. There was no diversity of thought. If you disagreed, they recommended you leave the church or implied you were trouble.