So far, my children and grandchildren have done exactly that.
Awesome. Your children and grandchildren have submitted and allow their speech to be controlled Stanford. So when some other institution controls their speech they already know how to submit.
How much practice and rationalization does that take? How guarded and fearful do they become?
No thanks. Stanford or any other place like it, is not worth it. My children and grandchildren will go were submission is not a requirement.