Kids on the playground have an equal but different response than the military. The kids say heads I win and tails you lose applies to the females military personnel.
Civilized nations do not send their women into combat on the battlefields. Civilized nations do not murder innocent babies in their mother’s wombs. Civilized nations do not recognize transsexualism, but do diagnose it as a mental disorder in need of help. Civilized nations do not recognize same sex marriage.