not to mention, yes, she was able to have ‘lunch with the girls’ and private trips:
“Over the following months, the Duchess privately visited the center on several occasions, getting to know the women on a deeper level and even helping in the kitchen. “:
https://www.harpersbazaar.com/celebrity/latest/a23281820/meghan-markle-grenfell-tower-fire-together-cookbook-solo-project/
People forget that she traveled to New York for her 500,000 baby shower during this time.