I was pulled over a couple of times while still working in in law enforcement. The first 2 things I said were to ID myself as an off duty cop, and that I was armed. The third thing I said was “officer, what would you like me to do next?” It let them know I was compliant and they were the ones telling me what to do, and not the other way around. I never had a problem. This guy is an ass.
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When they interview the woman and son you can see she's shaken. It sounds like he was strong arming her and trying to get inside.
It was the right move to close the door and call the police.
This guy is on arrogant creep.