Let's have this deprogramming discussion and compare notes...and see whose views of life are more closely associated with reality.
And whose are not.
And BTW does a person who believes reality is what you WANT IT TO BE sound a little more like someone who needs deprogramming? Or gender is what you want it to be?
Who is it who believes in the "I am a princess" fairy tales here?
This deprogramming discussion is one we need to have.
The projection never ends.