Well let me point out that in the church it is widely accepted that if your ministry is harming your family you need to step back from ministry and heal your family. God does not need you so badly that He would ever call you to harm your first responsibility to Him, your family.
So if God feels that way about ministry, perhaps you should give her a little slack about politics. Besides a tiny drop of gratitude is owed for her outstanding job accomplished.
You may be right but, we are now picking sides and her husband is not on the right side